GAYS AND RELATIONSHIP

its so unusual when a gay says "I'm in love".i mean, i've seen many of my frens falling in love wit other guy.there's no rule that a male shouldnt fall in love wit another male.but, the love that happens through PR or FACEBOOK doesnt remain love always.its just sex, sex and only sex.after all "making love" means having sex.so u see a guy in PLANETROMEO, u like him, the next moment u'll be with him, ready for sex.I'm sure many people say that they r not this type.but in reality, all gays primarily look for sex.so do I.but doesn't love exist in gay life??? it does.it isnt that conventional love that happens between a gal and a boy {1st meet, then know each other, then fall in love, then make love}.but its exactly opposite in gay life.

1st a gay meets a gay cos he liked his pictures on net, then they both have a cup of coffee, then talk formal things.later they jump onto bed, have sex.later, if the gay likes him, n vice versa, he will propose him for relationship.accept it or not, this is the reality.and this is what i have witnessed around me, within me and with me.my close friend PREETHAM is the typical example of this.he 1st chats wit a guy on internet, then if he likes him, the next moment he'll pass his number to that guy. preetham is so photogenic that any guy will be tempted to call him.so that same evening they both meet.preetam takes him to his fren's room whom he has already informed.then he'll have sex.later he thinks of going for coffee. and if he likes that guy more, he will propose him for relationship.

but doesnt that mean he is ready to share him and his life wit that guy??? nope.he want to have sex wit that guy again.so he plants a seed of relationship.what a great idea no???at last what i want to say is that true relationship is very rare in gay's life.its either too risky or too boring to be in a relationship.i mean, when u r a gay, u can have sex wit any number of gays u want.being a male, being a gay, u r not restricted by anyone to have sex.all gays maintain a discreet track in their life.

now coming to the negatives of a relationsship.

1} u have to be committed to 1 single person

2} u r expected to be committed to a single person

3} u get very possessive if ur boyfriend haves sex with any other guy, forget sex, u get possessive even if ur bf talks to another gay.

4} being a male, no one likes to be passive in real life. So u cant be perfect wife to ur bf, neither can u be a perfect husband for ur BF.

5)monogamous. u should have sex wit only one guy all the time. i mean, do u like to eat only rice 3times a day forever, wit no sambar, pickle, anything???

6} the more closer u r to a person, more misunderstandings, more n more cat fights

so if u r into a relationship, how much ever real, true it is, that relationship wont last for more days.i had 2relationships.1 lasted for 3months while tha next lasted for exactly 1month.may be i was still a kid at that to understand a relationship, but going back to those days, the idea of a relationship still scares me. It would be so much better if we can just have sex, sex sex. n then become very good frens.till now, i've earned many such close frens. ROHAN, PREETHAM, CHARLIE, NARESH, SUHAS, SANTOSH.

after saying so much against gay relationships, i still believe there exists true gay relationships. I’ve seen gay couples who r into relationship for more than 6years, 11years. they r so much happy with their partners that they don’t get tempted even if it s Hrithik roshan inviting them for sex. :)

i still love to have a partner. One person who suits me in all means. He should have these qualities

1) he should be handsome n sexy to me. Ugly to others

2) he shouldn't mind if i have sex with others. I’m just having sex, not sharing myself wit that guy.i am for my boyfriend

3) He shouldn't be over possessive

4) He should take good care of me. I will take care of him

5) let him have sex wit others, I don’t mind :)

6) No back stabbing. i don like others talking bad bout me behind me. Anything, bad or good, spit it on my face

so m still searching for that picture perfect dream boy. Anyone interested can apply :)